Saturday, 16 August 2014

How You Were Born: Review

Recently the boys and I were sent a copy of this book to review. While we were waiting for Bob to arrive Sausages and I read a couple of books in this genre. I tried as far as possible to steer away from resources that glossed over birth or told white lies rather than explain the facts to children. I believe that Sausages is well able to understand the process of birth.

breaking waters

This book does just what I was aiming for: it explains the processes of birth in a factual way, including key details that the young reader can take on board, such as delivery of the placenta, contractions or "waves," and the monitoring of the baby's heartbeat. There are also other features to discuss, such as the mama bouncing on a ball and laboring in the bath. The author discusses the emotions of the parents, from anticipation to welcoming. The illustrations are beautiful, especially the human figures, and can provide a starting point for varying the story to fit your own child's birth.

holding baby for the first time, complete with umbilical cord

There are a few things about this book that I didn't like. One was the slightly coy use of language: "tummy muscles" where I would have said uterus; "between my legs" and "out of my tummy" where I would have said vulva. I appreciate that many parents feel the need to avoid using more anatomical labels, but in my experience this confuses children. I also found the story very specific, in terms of time line. Really the story told wasn't like either of my births (one premature in hospital, one very fast at home with delayed cord clamping and no midwife), so when reading it with the boys I was constantly changing the words, or saying "but when you were born this didn't happen/this happened instead." In which case, the beautiful pictures are perfectly sufficient.

This book is part of a series featuring the same family, and is good for supporting the discourse on such subjects as birth and breastfeeding in any family, which is surely inevitable. It would be lovely to have the set for continuity, which is important for small children learning complicated subjects. I would especially recommend it if your child had a fairly conventional birth, since then it is more likely to match the story of the book.

Have you read any of the books in this collection with your children? What did you think? Do let me know!


Wednesday, 13 August 2014

Limbo Continued!

Well, we are still living between Husband's parents' house (near the area we are moving to) and my parents' house (where there is a bit more space). Our belongings are in both of these locations: piled up in garages; secreted under beds; stuffed behind sofas. At my parents' house there is now a room completely packed with mattresses, duvets, empty bookcases, bed frames and boxes of shoes. It's not all our stuff, but it mostly is! Our poor families are being so sweet and kind, but they'll breathe a big sigh when we are out of their hair! My sister likes things to be very ordered. It's hard for her when meals look like this:

That's a car made out of cucumber, obviously. Other top meals recently have included Husband's attempt to turn his pasta-making skills on gluten-free flour (awesome):

And this one at the Playground at Cliveden. They have a wonderful new playground constructed in wood along literary lines. My favourite feature has to be the rowing boat containing a carved ratty and mole.

Sausages made us this tea party of pinecones and bark to share with Winnie the Pooh. Bob loved it!

I have finished the first clue of my Follow Your Arrow. It looks gorgeous, and is so enjoyable to knit. I plan to take a photo at the end of each clue. Before I start the second clue I'm running up a little present for an exciting new person in our family, who I'm very excited to be meeting soon! Aviatrix has definitely become my favourite baby pattern, I hope his very creative parents like it.

The boys and I got a little present in the post this week; a copy of How You Were Born to review. The illustrations are so lovely, I'm going to give it it's own post after this one, so do pop back!

I hope you've had a lovely week, and if you're in the UK you've been safe in the bad weather. Don't forget to check out the other crafters and readers over at Ginny's!